Parenting the Connected Generation (children born after 2000 and growing up with technology). Sometimes I have the awesome opportunity to speak to local groups on parenting topics. The information is great for Busy Kids readers and for the parents who attended the seminar!
- How to Earn Technology Time (printable)
- The Technology Elevator (printable sample and blank)
- Resources: Pinterest, websites and books
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Printable: How to Earn Technology Time
Earning Technology Time
This chart is a hand tool to use to manage your child’s technology time. How often have we heard them declare that they are bored? We have our children earn their time, based on the following: exercise, playing outside, doing their chores, reading, and creating. You need to decide what your children need to work on (math facts, feeding the dog, cleaning their room, reading, playing together) and that’s what you put on your chart.
Remember: You, the mom, are the QUEEN. My chart uses 1 hours and 15 minutes a day. If I’m following the no more than 2 hour rule (set by the American Academy of Pediatrics for ages 6-18), then it still allows for a bonus 45 minutes. Then we can all watch a show together, I can chat with a friend, or they can play a game with a friend.
The chart also takes all of the guilt out of letting them have technology time. At first I monitored it, but then was able to back away. So when they’re on using a device or playing a game, I know they’ve done something productive to earn it.
Check out our favorite VISUAL timer (click here). It doesn’t make any noise and the kids can easily see how much time they have left. Truly a lifesaver! My kids also each use a simple Timex watch (click here) to keep track of their time when we’re on the go.
Click here to find out “What Kids Need Today”
Printable Technology Elevator (2 pages: 1 example, 1 blank): Technology Elevator
Technology Elevator – My husband and I came up with this elevator to help steer my now 12 year old and show him that we had a plan. Instead of just passing over a device we’re take baby steps. It’s always easier to lighten up rather than tighten up. Kids move up when they demonstrate maturity, self control, or they’re about to leave for college!
Being able to manage a chart like this shows responsibility and they earn your trust. It also clearly outlines to them what you feel is important for them to learn. There is no checklist that we’re working off of, these are just decisions that each family must make on their own.
The sample elevator starts at the bottom and works up. Just like Tim Smith’s chart (on the left), we have to move from control > coach > consultant. All levels are monitored… until they leave your home.
Think about when you were learning to drive. For years you’d ridden in the car with your parents. You knew where the pedals were, how to operate the radio, you had some basic understanding of where different roads led.
This Technology Elevator allows you to do the same thing with the internet…. Build up, rein it back in if needed, but slow and steady. With boundaries in place like this it allows them to have the privileges OR drop a level if there needs to be a consequence. Remember: It’s easier to lighten up rather than tighten up.
PINTEREST BOARD: Technology and Our Kids
No More Perfect Kids: Love the Kids You Have, Not the Ones You Want
Five Conversations You Must Have With Your Son by Vicki Courtney
Five Conversations You Must Have With Your Daughter by Vicki Courtney
Six Ways to Keep the Good in Your Boy by Dannah Gresh
Hands Free Mama by Rachel Stafford
Preparing Your Son for Every Man’s Battle by Steven Arterburn
Your Brain on Porn (free e-book from Covenant Eyes)
Positive Parenting Solutions Summer Contract (includes chores, behavior, and technology)
Life Skills (what kids need to know ages 2-18 for life)
BORED printable – for kids who don’t know what to do with themselves!
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